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Abstract

How to Get rid of Past-Baggage and

Build the Life you Want!

Discover step-by-step exactly what to do, to reclaim your life from toxic
divorce or separation.... Even if you feel lost, depressed and don't know
where to turn!

The marriage is over. But the pain isn't. You struggle to break free,
but there's a longing to go back and undo the past.

You want to move on. You're ready to put the past behind you, but you
dread the future and what it holds for you.
"Why me?" You wonder. "How did the man I loved, become an alien to me?
Where did the love disappear? How will I ever get over this? Why does
it take so long to move on? What is wrong with me?"
You want to bounce back from one of the biggest setbacks in your life -
a failed marriage. You want to give your kids a happy and secure
childhood. You want to stop feeling so tired and broken and believe in
love again. But you think you've hit a dead-end and you don't know
where to turn. The pain is unbearable and you feel stuck in your
situation. You're angry, scared and you don't know whom to trust.

You are not alone!

Almost 60% of marriages end in divorce. Yet it is one of the hardest
things to cope with. Just because it is so hard, you think you're being
punished for a terrible mistake. Before you know it, you have set up an
elaborate trap of over-analysis, trying to rationalize the past and
control things beyond your power. You end up reliving the pain over and
over - unable to forgive, unable to forget, unable to move on.
The more you fight with reality, the worse you feel
You cannot wish away your pain. You cannot feel better by running from
your circumstances. The more you resist your bad feelings, the stronger
they seem to get. You struggle to make the pain to go away, but you
only end up more bitter, lost and frustrated.
Do you have the right coping strategies?
Nobody really wants to struggle for months or years, only to deepen the
pain and frustration. Nobody wants to feel powerless over their bad
feelings, unable to break free from the cycle of anger, resentment,
despair, shame, fear and loneliness.

But most women go through needless pain and struggle. Why? Because they
don't know what to do or know how to cope. Because nobody is there to
tell them that there are effective ways to cut short the pain. To take
charge of their future. To pull them out of a dead-end relationship and
stop the bitterness from poisoning their body and mind.

Divorce is not a mistake - it's an acceptance of reality, a step toward
positive change.

Are you ready to stop the pain and discover effective ways to move on?



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Learn from Experts who taught Thousands of Women like you, Exactly how to
Move on and Rebuild their Life!


"...After listening to the interviews I was reminded that the grief we
experience from divorce is an organic process that our body knows how
to manage.

When feelings of failure and loss seem overwhelming, Dr. Witt counsels
us to have compassion for our self, reconnect and then listen to our
feminine voice; which will always remind us of the miracle we are.

I discovered that our sole responsibility is to thrive. First by loving
one's self, and then broadcasting that love to the rest of the world."

Susan Pelissier, M.A.
AgeandAttitude



The Best is Still to Come!
"The Who's Who of Personal Development" join me to help you to recover
from the pain of divorce, follow your dreams and find love again.
Learn the secrets of Leading Psychotherapists, Professional Coaches and
Authors of best-selling personal development books:




Barbara Stanny

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Philip Friedman

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Diana Kirschner

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Joe Rubino centerforpersonalreinvention



Diana Fletcher

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Susan Epstein

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Evan Katz

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mmKeith Witt

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Richard Nicastro

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Tammy Landau

SummitProfessionalCoaching


You want to feel better, to take charge of your life. You want to
believe in your dreams once more and you should! In fact, that's what
you need to focus on, more than anything else in the world. With the
right help, it's much easier than you think. And that's where I come
in.

My name is Vanaja Ghose and I am a life-coach helping countless
divorced women to rebuild their lives. If you think you have it bad,
that I couldn't possibly know what you're going through, imagine this.
In the year 1996 I was in a near-fatal traffic accident which left me
severely disabled - just as I thought things couldn't get worse, I had
to sort through the wreckage of my broken marriage and my life, to
piece together a future for myself and my children.


"...you will learn endless tips and thought provoking insight into the
topic of women, money, power and success. Hear how one woman shares
her own story and road to success including her obstacles and personal
challenges. Learn how beliefs that we hold impact the financial success
we realize. Also, learn that our under earning very rarely has anything
to do with money itself. Learn that women typically live in a fantasy
world where money is concerned. We expect to be rescued or that some
magical event will occur and bring us financial security. Learn how to
tell if you are an under earner or are in a state of resistance.
Barbara also shares in this interview steps to take in spite of the
fear that we feel. Learn how to step through fear and into forward
motion despite the resistance that you feel so that you keep moving
forward."


Janet Breitmaier, Signature Personal Coaching
home.cogeco.ca/~sigpcoach/Website.htm
Certified Financial AlchemyMaster Coach

Faced with the tough task of rebuilding my life, gaining financial
independence and raising happy children, I sought help everywhere I
could. I turned to therapists and social workers, read books and took
courses, leaving no stone unturned. I was determined to make it,
determined to rise above the negative trap of self-pity and reclaim my
life.

As I achieved my goals one by one, I realized how much easier it could
have been with the right skills and attitude. But above all, I
discovered what works and what does not work for women in my situation.
Soon I'll show you step-by-step, exactly what to do to feel better now
and change your situation.

Learn the important steps to believe in your dreams and make them
happen!


"...Low self esteem has been a lifelong problem for me. It has held me
back from true success in life. I never felt as good as others. I had a
need to be perfect; I was afraid to fail and thus underachieving. In
short, it was exhausting just living with decades of negative
self-talk.

In Joe Rubino's interview I learned that millions of people have the
same self-esteem problems as I do. I discovered that to improve self
esteem we need to heal and complete our past, forgive ourselves and
others. I learned I have to assess what is right in my life, live from
a position of gratitude, define my life purpose and create a vision for
living those values.

I learned that I am responsible for my own well being now. I can
transform fear into courage and self-confidence. I now know how I can
recognize my positive qualities and abilities - the personal assets I
never believed I had. Change is less frightening than continuing to
live as I had been.


Carol Davies,Success Coach
Free Your Spirit Now Coaching,
freeyourspiritnow

Know Thy Enemy:
The Enemy Within
The first thing you need to do, is to identify the factors that work
against you, in your recovery from a broken relationship.
Know the stumbling blocks you face, as you do everything in your power
to stop the pain of divorce or separation. You must remove these blocks
to move on as quickly as possible with the rest of your life.
1. "I don't know what I want"

Fear and uncertainty can cloud your mind and keep you running in
circles. The first thing you need to know, is what you want.
Do you want in or out of your marriage? Is your partner willing to work
with you, or are you running down a dead-end? Perhaps you want to
remain in the relationship but are unable to forgive. Perhaps you want
to make a fresh start but are trapped in the same cycle of thoughts and
feelings.

If you have been in a bad relationship for years, you can easily lose
touch with your feelings. You could be distorting your reality or
misinterpreting your feelings about your marriage. Your fights and
struggles could be a cover for some other issues. Perhaps your beliefs
and perceptions about yourself are hurting you.
"Mind fog" is the No.1 enemy you will encounter as you move on to
better things. I will help you to sort through your feelings and
discover what you truly want. Once your needs and wants are clearly
defined, it becomes much easier to go for it and find your happiness.

Discover the secrets of achieving more clarity in your life, to follow
your dreams with conviction!

2. "I am my past"

Divorced women often feel lost and undeserving. Don't fall for that
trap and don't settle for bad relationships, toxic people and underpaid
jobs.

How can you hold on to your self-worth, when all you have is a history
of gross neglect, betrayal, rejection and failure?
No amount of 'pep talk' will change your beliefs.
What you need is a clear strategy to identify flawed beliefs and stop
distorted thinking in its tracks. Break the addiction to self-pity and
self-loathing and learn to draw strength from positive, empowering
beliefs.

Connect with positive women who defied their background and
limitations. Set goals that are in line with your beliefs and your
expectations from life. Only then you can begin to move on!

Stop magnifying your flaws and setbacks.
You are not who you were. You are who you can be, who you want to be.
It's time to reconnect with empowering goals and draw strength from
them.
Break free from limiting beliefs about who you are and who you can be.
Learn how to restore self-esteem, achieve business success, maximize
joy and fulfillment in life and productivity at work.



"...tremendous value for listeners who want to raise their level of
self-esteem and how they view themselves. This audio effectively
covered things from self-esteem affecting all aspects of one's life
through actual steps to be taken to raise self-esteem. There were many
helpful distinctions mentioned such as feeling confident vs. having
high self-esteem and that helped to gain clarity as to how pervasive
self-esteem issues are for most people. I highly recommend this audio
for those who want to understand how their low self-esteem came about
and then how to feel better about themselves now."


Marion Franklin,
MS, MCC, Life Coach, Mentor, and Coach Trainer,
lifecoachinggroup



"Dr. Witt offers in his audio a tremendous opportunity to discover
strategies to use shame and guilt positively. Learn how we hide
emotions from ourselves and others and the reasons behind our natural
propensity to do this. He also shares steps on how to get over the
emotions and the grieving process that manifests at the death of a
marriage. This audio is packed with solid information that you can
easily identify with and use immediately to begin honoring and growing
into the goddess that you are."
Janet Breitmaier, Signature Personal Coaching
home.cogeco.ca/~sigpcoach/Website.htm
Certified Financial AlchemyMaster Coach

Be inspired to lead a fuller, happier life



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3. "Where do I go from here?"


Just because you're unable to see your future, doesn't mean you don't
have one. Swap the magnifying glass for a telescope and see the
infinite possibilities for the future!
Many women have difficulty acknowledging their ambitious, competitive
nature at work. The need for financial independence brought out a side
of me that I barely knew before!
Work can be a great source of fulfillment and security for you. Find
out how to go from being a frustrated under-achiever to a focused
go-getter. In this part of the course, I've laid down the stepping
stones to financial success:



How to tell if you are an under earner and master the steps to overcome
it



Discover the biggest lie you tell yourself that affects your earning
your full potential



Learn the key to success for women (or learn the secret to getting over
the blocks that keep you from achieving success



Find out if you are a "doer" or a "dawdler"



Dismantle the biggest barrier between your decision to make more money
and actually having it
Find out how low self esteem affects your ability to earn more money
and.how you can overcome it


4. "Nobody loves me"

Finally there comes the obstacle you dread most. Letting go, moving on
and opening your heart to love again. Many mistaken beliefs can get in
the way of finding the man of your dreams. Perhaps you believe you're
not worthy. You might not trust your judgment again. You might be
unable to forgive yourself and let go.
Fear of rejection can isolate you, making you turn down every
opportunity to meet new people, to learn and grow. Know that our
greatest need is to be loved and we can never be happy by denying this
need. Stop trying to be perfect and allow yourself to enjoy this
process.

Yes, you know what you want and you can find it! Find 'the one' with
the essentials of dating success, including:



The secrets of getting back out there and meeting the love of your life



How to make the online dating experience work for you



Learn some make-it-or-break-it steps that women can take to pick
themselves up and move on after a divorce



3 things women can do TODAY to increase their chances of getting into a
great relationship



How to make online dating experience work for you
Avoid the Common Relationship Mistakes.


Find the Love you Want!

"I have been divorced for three years and have been dating for the past
two years - without any success. I tried online dating also a few
times, and gave up. After listening to Vanaja's two interviews with
dating experts, I realized I had been making so many mistakes! Evan
Katz and Diana Kirschner give a man and a woman's perspective
respectively, and talk about the mistakes I can avoid, the red flags to
watch out for, what men would really like us to know, things we can do
to increase our chances of getting into a great relationship, and so
much more! WOW!
And THANK YOU also for the much-needed information about how to be a
better single parent. Parenting has been tough these last three years
as my children were 4 and 6 when I divorced. But Susan Epstein gives
very helpful advice for all ages, and I learnt how I can stop myself
from yelling at the kids (I get stressed!), get my children to be more
respectful, get them to do their homework, how not to give in to their
whiny demands, how to recognize warning signs of drug and alcohol abuse
and what I can do to protect my kids from it.
I really hope women who are in similar situation as I am in will listen
to these audios so that they don't make the same mistakes I did."
Jessica Maris, Vancouver, BC

5. "I have deprived my kids"

How do kids cope with divorce and how can you make it easier for them?
I spoke to experts with decades of psychotherapy practice, with a
special emphasis on family and parenting. Here's what you will learn:



The most important thing you can do to ensure that your children's
lives are stable after your divorce.



What you should be telling your children about the divorce.



Prevent situations where you find yourself yelling at kids



Rules for dating again when you have children



How to get your children to be more respectful to you.



How to stop nagging the kids to get them to do their chores and
homework



How to control your children's habits of cell phone use.



Warning signs of alcohol and drug use/abuse and what you can do to
protect them.



Dangers of "giving in" to a whiny child's demands.



What you can do to instill good values in your children.

Let go the guilt and become a better parent - it's easier than you
think!


"...Thank you for helping me to the next phase of my forgiveness arc!!
I recently had a breakup of a relationship. I consistently blamed my
boyfriend for what he did. The info from Dr. Friedman was empowering! I
went from that blaming state to beginning the acceptance, contentment
and happiness process with myself. My previous state of un-forgiveness
was stagnating and hurt me immeasurably. This process of forgiveness
is helping me seek the "higher self" Dr. Friedman mentions. As a
coach, I help others move on. As I move to the next level myself, I'm
on my way to do this even more exponentially with my clients. As Dr.
Friedman says I can be that beacon of light to others. Thank you
again!!

Crystal Williamson
coachingwithcrystal@yahoo
coachingwithcrystal

6. "I can't repeat the same mistakes!"

Forgiveness and trust are the Keys to Letting Go. You can't move on
until you clear the toxic debris of the past and make room for positive
feelings.



Forgive the past and stop picking your hurts - allow the healing
process to begin!



Forgive yourself as quickly as possible



4 key words that stop you from forgiving someone and keep you angry
.and stuck



The consequences of not forgiving yourself or another person



Understanding betrayal and rejection



Putting yourself in their shoes

To make this vital step much easier, I've outlined in clear points how
to loosen your grip on the past and open your heart for better things!


Discover what's missing from your life.

Click here to start your personal journey from divorced to dazzling!

ONLY $97.00


"I didn't realize....how many opportunities there really are in our
lives for forgiveness. Whenever we feel disconnected from ourselves in
any way, and not particularly peaceful or accepting, there is probably
an opportunity to forgive that can help us feel more at peace. The
interview reminded me of the importance of forgiveness and how much
life energy -- physical, emotional, and spiritual -- we free up when we
choose forgiveness. I also very much appreciated the discussion about
the relationship between forgiveness and gratitude and how forgiveness
can take us across the bridge from negative emotional states to more
positive ones. I got a lot out of it, thank you!"
Jason Howard
Your Infinite Playground


I found your interview series to be both instructive and interesting!
In particular I liked Dr. Friedman's reminder about unforgiveness to be
most helpful. As Dr. Friedman says "Unforgiveness is about blame and
judgment. And only by letting go of these lethal emotions can we return
to our rightful place of personal power."

Thanks,
Susan Pelissier, M.A.
AgeandAttitude

How to deal with
The Enemies Outside

You wish your divorce could be more private, but there are a number of
people who feel very involved. Everybody seems to have a vested
interest or a bone to pick. No wonder the entire process feels like a
vicious tug-of-war between your in-laws, kids, step-children, exes,
divorce lawyers, the new woman in his life, the new man in your
life...and many other 'well-meaning' friends and relatives.
Here I will address specific situations and issues, to help you deal
with them as they arise. You can be practical and diplomatic, when you
know what to expect and have the ground rules clearly laid out for you.
Save your dignity and your private space by marking boundaries clearly.
You are in-charge of your life and your decisions. Put your needs first
and stand up for yourself!

Gain crucial insights on the practical aspects of coping with divorce:
Dealing with burnout
How to tell if it is an "urgent" or "important"
task
The negative impact of procrastination on your
health
A sure-fire way to demand more from others
Reduce your financial stress
Tricks to save time, reduce stress and have fun at
the same time.
Make your own Happy Ending
How to create a Happy Outcome to a Painful Past
Divorce is a beginning, not the end. You can create a positive outcome
and turn the process into a stepping stone to lasting happiness. If you
are tired of clutching at straws and want powerful advice that works,
hop onboard and let me steer you step-by-step through the raging
emotional storm of divorce and separation.
Learn healthy ways to cope with your situation from a woman who knows
what it's like to be adrift.

Turn your divorce into a constructive process of change. Get
compassionate, no-nonsense advice instead of prolonging your pain with
denial or procrastinating on important issues and decisions.
Remember, I can't help you till you let me!
Even with all my experience and resources, I can't help you till you
want me to. Are you ready to break free from the past and see the
wonderful future that awaits you?

"The journey of a thousand miles begins with one step"
Ready to take the first step? It's really simple. Click below to
purchase my life-changing course "Divorced to Dazzling
Step-by-Step Blueprint to Create Your Sparkling New Life"


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Fast Action Bonus:

The first 10 people to Order will get a 60 minute fast track personal
coaching session with me. Act now so you can start living your new life
with passion, purpose and joy! This is a value of $150 but is limited
to the first ten people so hurry!

Remember, I stand 100% behind the information I'm offering
you. If in the next 30 days you decide you didn't enjoy the audios and
the workbook, just let me know and ask for your money back.

"Yes, Vanaja, Show Me Quickly
How to Create a Sparkling New Life for Myself "

I understand I will receive:




Barbara Stanny - how to overcome under earning, key to success
for women, get over blocks or barriers, how self esteem affects your
ability to earn more money, and live a life of financial empowerment

Dr. Philip Friedman - Releasing anger and guilt through
forgiveness - will learn how anger can affect your physical and mental
health, how to release anger and guilt through forgiveness, even when
something seems unforgivable and you are stuck.

Dr. Keith Witt - what is shame, how hiding shame can become a
habit and how it impacts your relationships, what questions to ask
yourself if you are thinking of leaving a relationship, how to get
over the guilt and shame

Diane Fletcher - Strategies for reducing stress - stress as a
single parent, financial stress, lack of time, how procrastination adds
to stress.

Dr. Joe Rubino - you will learn all about self esteem, and how
it affects every aspect of our lives, and how you can become more self
confident.

Susan Epstein - Life as a single parent: handling children of
different ages, dealing with issues such as not doing homework, too
much cell phone and computer, drugs and alcohol

Dr. Diana Kirschner - Finding love again - a woman's
perspective

Evan Marc Katz - Finding love again - a man's perspective -
the pitfalls of the changing dating world, how to avoid making those
mistakes, how to avoid negative dating patterns, how to successfully
date again, separating what we want from what we need
Dr. Richard Nicastro - Making your Relationship Work - how
lack of self acceptance affects a relationship, how self acceptance
helps you grow, how having a relationship vision can move a
relationship forward, how to create a more stronger and vibrant
relationship, how to strengthen a relationship, having meaningful and
successful relationship

That's not all - I also get access to two bonuses:

Bonus#1




I will receive a 66 page workbook that will help me work
through all the questions that have been in my head, but I didn't know
how to answer them in a way that would help me.

I will learn how to separate what I really need, from the
outside pressures and expectations that bog me down, and make me lose
touch with my inner self.

Bonus #2

That's not all - I also get immediate access to
Renegade Business Coach Tammy Landau's interview on how to gain
financial independence by starting and running a business I love!


I also understand that if I am not satisfied with what I
receive, I can ask for a refund within 60 days.

Get ready to step into your sparkling new life - a life you want and
deserve, a life you've always dreamed about. Let's get started!
Yours - every step of the way!






Vanaja Ghose vanaja.ghose@gmail
Your coach and partner in life after divorce
DivorcedToDazzling


Bonus#1

Dealing with divorce can be a complicated and overwhelming. This 50
page workbook is chockfull of information that will help you identify
your wants, your needs and the goals you want to accomplish for your
new life!

Learn to separate your wants and needs from the outside pressures and
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with your inner self. (Value $49.00)

Bonus #2

PLUS! Get Renegade Business Coach Tammy Landau's interview on how to
gain financial independence by starting and running a business you
love! You're already making changes why not start your own business to
boot! Don't miss out! (Value $97.00)

P.S. Don't forget the Fast Action Bonus:
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with Vanaja Ghose (Value $150.00!)

P.P.S. You have nothing to lose with my 60 day money back guarantee,
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"Recently I listened to a cutting edge interview with Barbara Stanny on
what women can do to improve and revolutionize their relationship with
money. Barbara is one of the leading authorities on women and money.
She has some simple answers to help you with questions like, when it
comes to money, are you controlled by fear? Do you underestimate your
worth? Are you ready to go to the next level, but can't seem to get
there? Barbara explains that if you answered yes to any of these
questions, you may be afraid to manage your money, be an under earner
or a self-saboteur who doesn't live up to her earnings potential.

This audio interview is inspiring as it simply explains how women have
the innate ability to gain skills in money management. Barbara explains
that by taking charge of your money--you can help yourself. It is an
act of self-love, it is an act of love for people you care about. I
have come to see that achieving self love, self worth, self respect are
the real secrets to financial success. I have learned to focus on the
positive things in my life, let go of my financial fears, surround
myself with positive and supportive people, figure out a financial plan
for myself and always believe that I am worthy to have money and
abundance in my life."

Carol Davies, Success Coach
Free Your Spirit Now Coaching,
freeyourspiritnow








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